should I continue talking to him and give him a chance even though I’m not sexually attracted to him?
Tell us what you think in the boards: would you date someone with a great personality who you weren’t sexually attracted to?
Forgive me for putting this bluntly, friends, but marrying someone means vowing to have sex with them regularly for the rest of your life (health and old age allowing).
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’ I’m surprised how many people – both women and men – write to me because they’re worried that they ‘ought’ to date someone they’re not attracted to, and to insist on attraction would be superficial and un Godly.
I don’t know what’s wrong with me; I feel like a horrible and shallow person by saying this but I am not attracted to his body type.
‘I’m dating a nice Christian guy who I like and respect,’ said the email (so far, so good – however, I hear a ‘but’ coming). Or as a Christian, does God expect me to be less shallow?
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